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I have to admit that I hadn't wanted to screen "Bulgaria's Abandoned Children," having had an inkling of what the documentary was about.  I was obliged to watch it for my work as a web content producer here at TVO.  Seeing it was a harrowing experience and so many times, I wanted to turn off the betacam machine.  Images of the children compulsively rocking back and forth, perhaps in an effort to comfort themselves, was heartbreaking.  I saw the sweetest boy, Stoyan, who happens to be blind, unable to move, frozen in an upright position, daring not to move because if he were to fall, his stick-like legs could snap as easily as twigs, I couldn't turn away.  I watched Vasky, a young woman so malnourished she had the body size of a six-year-old.  Vasky could no longer walk.  Instead, she had improvised a hunched over, dragging motion, using her arms to propel her rear forward along the floor.  If the children could endure and still survive the abuse and neglect that brought them to their present state, then I could bear witness to it.

It is difficult not to be moved by "Bulgaria's Abandoned Children," what is hard to comprehend is how this could happen in a modern, European country.  I don't think I'm exaggerating when I say that some of these children look as wasted and sickly as the devastating images we saw in Ethiopia at the height of the famine.

The filmmakers did what many of the workers in the Home could not do ... humanize these physically and mentally challenged children and make us not turn our eyes away.

I encourage you to watch the film.  Then come back and give us your comments.  We'd like to hear from you.

What obligations do we have as a society to care for developmentally-challenged individuals?  What was your reaction to the documentary?
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No Avatar Uploaded Started on 15 Feb 08 at 2:54 PM 
by JeanetteK

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Shocking!!
I am currently studying psychology at a university in Ontario.  I have worked with children with disabilities my whole life and I hope to continue that work once I am finished school.  I cannot believe the conditions that these children deal with.  It broke my heart to see that this is happening to children, that their abilities are being brought to a hault by these (on the most part) careless workers.  I hope to one day help these and children alike, as I cannot bare to think that there is no one there to help.  I think what was shown on this documentary was disgusting and very sad.  These chilren have the opportunity of doing and becomming much more intelligent, its just a matter of caring.  I dont think the workers there need to be TRAINED to teach these children how to speak or how to read or learn, it is something that can be done without much training, there just needs to be love and a sense of kindness.  Not every mother who gives birth has been trained how to care for children or teach them how to talk, but countless are successful, and there is certainly no reason for malnutrition and for the children to not be able to go outside.  I am very sad for these children and I hope that someone sees this, who is able to take action, and helps these dying children.


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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 24 Feb 08 at 10:14 PM
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by Psychology Student- Ontario
Profoundly sad
How profoundly sad is the situation for these children. It is hard to believe. Perhaps we had such institutions in Canada at the turn of the century (1900s). How disheartening to know that such places still are in operation today in other countries. I wonder if there is anything that can be done by any of us. I, too, wanted to turn away during some of those scenes. How terrible that the director did not see herself has having any responsibility in the situation, but just blamed her staff. If she believed that was true, she should have felt compelled to get new staff and to train them and require them to do more. So she is still responsible, either way. Their government is failing them, also, by not monitoring them and requiring more. it must have been very difficult for the film producer and staff to witness it in real life.


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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 24 Feb 08 at 10:42 PM
by PS
what has our world come to!

My background in Psychology, both BA and MA, dealing with clinical psychology, and mental health provider there are no words. I have worked before in a group home setting in Ontario in my undergrad as well as during my graduate studies. My background deals with children and adults with developmental and physical disabilities.

Watching Bulgaria's Abandoned Children, has made me realize how we have become so cold and unhumane to the reality around us. If Bulgaria has the highest rate of institutions how is it that there are uneducated individuals working there, who turn their backs and eyes to the truth of the treatment of these children and adults.

I hope this film will open up people's eyes of how fortunate we are our our health care system. As well as to be able to open up the eyes of the others who choose not to see the truth and reality around them because it is easier to deny the truth than be the one responsible for such inhumane and cruelty.

As a health care provider, it breaks my heart to see others call themselves social workers, or caregivers when they have lost the gist for the meaning of their profession as it is easier to not care and just forget than to make a change. That change can only happen with education, advocacy, training not only for the staff but the individuals who run such places that things don't have to be that way.

People, have to make a stance, stop the denying, and make a change for those who cannot voice themselves or who are seen as "objects" because of their disability.




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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 24 Feb 08 at 10:49 PM
by sylwia1
Unbelievable!!

Well..i just finished watching this horrible documentary.
and even though i didn't watch it completely i watched the endd
and i didn't have to watch it all to break my heart.
It was so hard seeing children living in that situation,i mean its unbelievable how people doesn't care about them and what they are going through.I actually can believe peole can be that cold,it supposed to be an institution where you`ll get help and comfot while you get someone to dopt you or something like that
but instead they are making the life of this kids hell,they are not caring and and they are driving them to the border of death.I don't get how they have become that thin its disgutisting,and how the staff seem to think they are okay!
What i really was disgusted about was they way the director thinks.well if we can call that a director.
And how irresponsible she is ,i mean blaming the staff only,while she thinks she is doing the right thing.

Its really sad what this kids are going through,Hopefully someday they will get the need, or maybe they will find a mother,since the real ones were no capable of taking care of them,and just throwed them away like a simple object.




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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 24 Feb 08 at 10:50 PM
by nata
Bulgaria's Abandoned Children

I have yet to calm down from watching this documentary. I am still in a state of shock, to say the least, and find myself unable to contain my tears. This was the epitome of inhumanity  ...human ignorance and cruelty at its worst. I cannot believe that any sort of society in our world would allow such things to happen to not only the developmentally-challenged, but to CHILDREN. Not to mention that Bulgaria isn't even considered a third-world country?? As far as I'm concerned, this country doesn't even have an excuse for how it's running such care facilities. There are obviously some serious political issues at hand, since the government clearly isn't willing to make these children (or the adults, I might add) a priority.

I want to extend a big thank you to the director of this film, for being brave enough to shed light on such a concientious issue ...one that is so important, yet so often neglected and ignored. I'm actually really curious to know as to what other courses of action can be taken by the public (besides financial donations to such facilities) to alleviate such a problem?

P.S. are any of the children up for adoption?

Jasmina




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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 24 Feb 08 at 10:54 PM
by Jasmina87
I just read the updates
I posted earlier, before I read the updates on the website. I am so glad to see that changes have indeed been being made. That is great. I am going to read more about it and see how I can help, too. So everyone be sure to look at the updates, too.


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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 24 Feb 08 at 10:56 PM
by PS
Utterly Heartbreaking!

Wow...I cannot believe that this is going on.  I was shocked, discusted, cried.  I am almost at a loss for words at just how dispicable this situation is.  In a modern country this should NOT be going on.  If the country of Bulgaria does not want to look after these kids then send them over here to Canada where they can be helped!  They deserve it more then some of the other immigrants that they let over here.

I cannot believe the courage shown by the film maker either.  I would have wanted to punch that so called "caretaker" in the face when she said that there was nothing wrong with Vasky. Oh My God!  Is the woman blind??  Is this how this country treats all of its children and disabled people? WOW...just WOW.  These poor poor unfortunate kids.  This makes me sick and I was extremely angry after watching this film.




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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 24 Feb 08 at 10:57 PM
by bwitched
In Stark Contrasts
I found myself literaly fixed to the show, as much as I wanted to I could not turn the channel and simply look away. I should qualify that, I turned the channel twice, each time lasted less than 30 seconds and found myself switching back, part of me felt it my responsibility to bear witness though in my comfortable part of the world my witness can bear no impact on the lives that I've seen. I have to admit though the program has me at odds with the comforts of my position of my life and of my culture, I struggle with the thoughts of could I actually do something have some impact... What I found almost as discouraging and certainly as distastefull was the stark contast, simply knowing that the Oscars were running at the same time on another channel, in fact that was the show I tapped back to and could do so only twice the second time as a punishment of sorts confirming that yes this was the world I was living in. That I could switch between the horrendous inconceivable lives of those children to a room full of celebrities smiling from ear to ear congratulating themselves on the terrific work they do. Smiling and offering each other accalaids and awards while a small world away those very children rock themselves to simply verify to themselves that they exist... Can any single celebrity in that room not realize that they could fund an institution like that for a year and liken it to any one of us as missing perhaps a single weeks pay? I can only imagine the impact the film would have had given a live feed of the Oscars be sparatically introduced throughout the documentary. I honestly don't think we get it as a human race... In closing the documentary was haunting. It challenges any viewer with a consience and parent with a child and for me has in a night, taken the shine off of any celebrity I may have found in the past, even mildly entertaining. I only hope that the impact this film had on me won't diminish and maybe I can find a way to make a small difference.


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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 24 Feb 08 at 11:04 PM
by thedrax
Bulgaria's Abandoned Children

After watching your broadcast of Bulgaria's Abandoned Children, I felt sick to my stomach.  Seeing these children living in such disgusting, inhumane conditions broke my heart.  How could people treat the most vunerable of children like this?  I could barely watch when the boy almost jumped into the filmmakers arms just to have human contact and a hug!  God bless this filmmaker for exposing this attrocity, and bringing attention to Bulgaria's lack of compasion and care for there most vulnerable.  In the end, I am glad that I watched the program, for now I am aware of whats going on and will do what I can to help.

Thank you




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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 24 Feb 08 at 11:18 PM
by Hutch
Outraged

 

I don't believe people in this century are still being treated like animals.

The director and the staff need to be fired for not reporting or caring about the neglect and abuse that occurs daily in these poor souls lives.

Violation after violation, children not being given any care, love, dignity, respect, stumulation, education, I could go on and on.

The government needs a swift kick. I don't believe they are doing anything to change the situation, and if they are they are far too slow. Theses children need help yesterday.

I work in the social services field and we think we have a long way to go as far as education, rights etc but nothing compares to what these children endure day in and day out. I am disgusted.

What can we do to help??

 

My hats off to the director and I feel she should do a follow up story, perhaps with the media and the world knowing thier secrets, now they will finally do something.

Lousie




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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 24 Feb 08 at 11:20 PM
by Louise E

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