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Topic: Pedophiles in the community

I know this is a controversial topic, but how do people feel about convicted pedophiles being released back into the community after getting treatment?

As a parent, are you concerned about the safety of your children? As a citizen, are you concerned about giving someone a second chance who has paid their debt to society? Does one outweigh the other?

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No Avatar Uploaded Started on 14 Jan 08 at 4:02 PM 
by Sweet

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I have to admit that in this instance I do not believe the rights of these individuals should be placed ahead of the safety of children. I do not believe that such an illness can be cured and therefore pedophiles remain a threat regardless of treatment and time spent in prison.

I would not want one released into my neighbourhood nor any neighbourhood where there are children. I can think of no parent who would. There is still so much surrounding this illness that we do not understand and until there is some sort of proven treatment that works 100% of the time, no parent would want to take the risk.  




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Sarah Posted on 15 Jan 08 at 9:51 AM
by Sarah
recidivism
Sarah brings up a good point - given recidivism rates, do you think pedophiles can be rehabilitated?


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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 17 Jan 08 at 11:32 AM
by Sweet
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Watching the movie "Secret Life" was difficult. Although it is a heinous crime to molest children, I felt for this guy. I wasn't surprised that he ended his life. I did listen to all the opinions of the experts that were posted on your site. Although I am still quite baffled by the whole issue of pedophiles, the most intelligent and hopeful thing I heard was about the program called COSA, Circle Of Support and Accountability. Many pedophiles are themselves "damaged" early in life by an adult. Where is his/her second chance at life? COSA attempts to deal with the safety of the community, while showing the offenders that although they have committed a great crime, they are still human beings. Hate begets hate. There has to be a better solution, and I think that COSA is a beginning.  


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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 27 Jan 08 at 11:51 PM
by Francie
second chance to what?

I really think that if pedophiles could stop themselves from preying on children, they would have. Therefore, I see no need to release them back into society, just because the prison sentences end, because the instances of reoffense are simply too high to risk it...yet the Government allows the risk to remain, through their incompetant and short sighted planning by commitee.

For God's sake, the half way house for these folks in Kingston is next to THREE!!!!!!!! schools...what moron thought THAT would be a good location?

These idiots would stick an AA meeting  next boor to an LCBO....




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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 01 Apr 08 at 1:28 PM
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by SandGsDad
What about Support for the Family?

Okay, so a young man has been caught.  He's before the judge, he at least either takes the decency to admit what he's done, as it's been said about these kinds that they will never admit it until caught.  Now, the man is going to go to jail, or at least we hope so.  I heard comments on this site that say perhaps for 20 years.  Wowa that's a long time, but it takes a long time to deal with a psychiatric condition and to give them rehabilitative treatments etc. within that system.

However, in the meantime, what about supports for the family and friends of the family of the perpetrator?  Where do they go?  Who do they talk to?  Are there support groups in Canada where family/friends can go to talk out their own emotions and thoughts and to hear from others who are also going through this?

Please, I'd really like to get a response that would tell about those kinds of supports.




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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 14 Feb 09 at 3:23 PM
by ConcernedAngel
Where can one get copy of movie?

Don't know much about TVO yet, only came on here because of specific subject matter.

Where can one obtain this movie, "Secret Life" to view at home say?




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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 14 Feb 09 at 3:25 PM
by ConcernedAngel
Amber Alert GPS Canada

We can take steps to protect our children, I have found a company that sells a small device that uses GPS and cellular technology to locate children if they become missing. The device is worn on a child and has an SOS button that they can press if they are in danger, the device will call up to 5 people you choose and give a location of your child, you may also dial the device and  listen in to determine if the child is in danger. To locate the child wearing the device you call it like you would a cell phone (it does not ring) and within 30 seconds you have a map location sent to your web enabled cell phone.

check out the website for more information

www.amberalertgps.ca




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No Avatar Uploaded Posted on 27 Aug 09 at 2:14 AM
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