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<title>People for Education Conference</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 16 Nov 09 18:27:10 GMT</pubDate>
<description>&lt;p&gt;Members of our &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/&quot;&gt;Your Voice&lt;/a&gt; team have been attending the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.peopleforeducation.com/&quot;&gt;People for Education&lt;/a&gt;&apos;s conference for three years now, since our show started.&amp;nbsp; We&apos;ve gone to workshops and scoped out issues and experts that we thought would make great shows.&amp;nbsp; This year, we went even further, suggesting that we team up with People for Education to bring their audience and ours as much of the day as possible, online and on tv.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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What a day it was.&lt;br /&gt;
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Fuelled by coffee and Gatorade, I interviewed three people, hosted a &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/index.cfm?page_id=482&quot;&gt;Your Voice&lt;/a&gt; discussion, and moderated the conference&apos;s plenary discussion.&lt;br /&gt;
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Over the next few days and weeks,&amp;nbsp; you will find on our &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/index.cfm?page_id=482&quot;&gt;site&lt;/a&gt;, and on &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/TVO/WebObjects/TVO.woa&quot;&gt;TVO&lt;/a&gt;, our special interviews with:&amp;nbsp; Kathleen Wynne, Education Minister;&amp;nbsp; Charles Pascal, Special Advisor to the Premier on Early Learning; and&amp;nbsp; Annie Kidder, Director of People for Education.&amp;nbsp; You will also find our show on &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/index.cfm?page_id=483&amp;amp;event_id=2745&amp;amp;sitefolder=tvoparents&quot;&gt;Standardized Testing: Pros, Cons and Alternatives&lt;/a&gt;, which was a fiery debate about &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.eqao.com/&quot;&gt;EQAO&lt;/a&gt; testing in Ontario, and standardized testing in general.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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The plenary discussion on standardized testing, which I moderated, will also be posted &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/TVOsites/WebObjects/TvoMicrosite.woa?making_connections&quot;&gt;online&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; Listen to the questions posed by members of the audience, and you&apos;ll hear just how much people care about education.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&lt;br /&gt;
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It was an exciting, hopeful day, and I hope you catch some of it &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/&quot;&gt;here&lt;/a&gt;.&lt;br /&gt;
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<title>More School or Less?</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 13 Nov 09 16:16:32 GMT</pubDate>
<description>&lt;p&gt;Mere days after interviewing Charles Pascal and&amp;nbsp; Kathleen Wynne about Ontario&apos;s plan for full-day, full-time kindergarten, I read last night in &lt;a href=&quot;http://www2.macleans.ca/2009/11/12/hawaii-starts-furlough-fridays/&quot;&gt;Maclean&apos;s&lt;/a&gt; magazine that schools in the state of Hawaii have just switched to four-day school weeks.&amp;nbsp; That will cut 17 school days from the calendar, giving children in Hawaii only 163 school days, the shortest school calendar in the country.&amp;nbsp; According the the article, 100 schools in the US have already moved to four-day school weeks.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; The reason?&amp;nbsp; Money, of course.&amp;nbsp; The states are dealing with huge deficits and say they just can&apos;t afford so much school.&lt;br /&gt;
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Here in Ontario, we are doing just the opposite.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; We&apos;re investing more money in education with full-day, full-time kindergarten.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; It will be offered to 35,000 children next fall, and in five years, all Ontario children aged 4 and 5 will be able to opt in to the full-day program.&amp;nbsp; It will cost 1.5 billion dollars per year when fully implemented.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The program was recommended in a &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.ontario.ca/ontprodconsume/groups/content/@gopsp/@initiative/documents/document/ont06_018899.pdf&quot;&gt;report&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp; by Charles Pascal, Special Advisor on Early Learning, and I spoke with him recently about it.&amp;nbsp; I also interviewed the MInister of Education, Kathleen Wynne.&amp;nbsp; You can watch both interviews at &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/index.cfm?page_id=482&quot;&gt;Your Voice.&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp; When I asked them how Ontario could afford this now, given our 24.7 milllion dollar deficit, they both said, &amp;quot;How can we not afford it?&amp;quot; They believe, and so do many educators, that our greatest investment, even in a recession, &lt;i&gt;especially &lt;/i&gt;in a recession, is in the education of our children.&amp;nbsp; Pascal&apos;s report says &amp;quot;University of Toronto economists showed a 2:1 payback on public funding for developmentally enriched child care&amp;quot; and cited a Manitoba study that showed &amp;quot;spending on early childhood programs has an economic multiplier effect on local economies, generating up to $1.7 for every $1 spent.&amp;quot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;  Pascal gives lots of reasons for that - parents will be able to work more, and children who get a good start will need less help later in school, and in life.&lt;br /&gt;
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My kids are far too old for this now, and I&apos;m not sure if I would have opted in to the full-day program.&amp;nbsp; But if I had to bet on Hawaii or Ontario, I&apos;d put my money on the Ontario plan.&amp;nbsp; Balancing budgets on the backs of children doesn&apos;t make any sense to me.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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<title>The subject of gay</title>
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<pubDate>Tue, 10 Nov 09 16:17:48 GMT</pubDate>
<description>&lt;p&gt;Ontario&apos;s Ministry of Education has recently beefed up its &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.edu.gov.on.ca/eng/policyfunding/equity.pdf&quot;&gt;Equity and Inclusive Education Strategy.&amp;nbsp; &lt;/a&gt;According to the document, that means&amp;nbsp; &amp;quot;respecting diversity, promoting inclusive education, and identifying and eliminating discriminatory biases, systemic barriers, and power dynamics that limit students&apos; learning, growth and contribution to society.&amp;quot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; It also says that&amp;nbsp; &amp;quot;such factors as race, sexual orientation, physical or mental disability, gender, and class...can create barriers.&amp;quot;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; It&apos;s the &amp;quot;sexual orientation&amp;quot; part that got us thinking here at &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/index.cfm?page_id=483&amp;amp;event_id=2765&amp;amp;sitefolder=tvoparents&quot;&gt;Your Voice&lt;/a&gt;, so we did a show on it.&lt;br /&gt;
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We discovered that teachers have been asking for ways to approach sexual orientation in classrooms as young as JK.&amp;nbsp; After all, in Ontario&apos;s increasingly diverse classrooms, there are lots of kids who have same-sex parents, or who may be gay or know people who are gay.&amp;nbsp; How are they affected when traditional family structures and hererosexuality are the only models presented in the classroom, when&amp;nbsp; they or their families are never represented in the curriculum, programs and culture of the school?&lt;br /&gt;
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The Ministry is on the right track here, noting that recent research shows that kids who &amp;quot;feel connected to teachers, to other students, and to the school itself do better academically.&amp;quot;&amp;nbsp; Is this a surprise?&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; It&apos;s common sense, but sometimes you need a document to tell you that.&lt;br /&gt;
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So the Ministry has set guidelines to help teachers talk about sexual orientation in their classrooms, and teachers welcome the help.&amp;nbsp; For some, this isn&apos;t the easiest thing to talk about. &lt;br /&gt;
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But let&apos;s be clear here.&amp;nbsp; Kids in JK or even Grade One are not talking about being gay or lesbian.&amp;nbsp; What they do need to talk about is including and respecting everyone in the class, even if they or their families are different than you.&amp;nbsp; It means talking about how it feels when someone makes fun or you,&amp;nbsp; or bullies you.&amp;nbsp; It means making every child, regardless of their or their parents&apos; sexual orientation, feel safe and happy at their school.&lt;br /&gt;
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If anything, this should be more than a guideline.&amp;nbsp; It should be mandated.&amp;nbsp; Otherwise, some teachers will talk about sexual orientation, and some will not.&amp;nbsp; Education Minister Kathleen Wynne said in an interview on &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/index.cfm?page_id=482&quot;&gt;Your Voice&lt;/a&gt; that she trusts teachers and schools to follow the guidelines, and that we have to respect the time it might take to get used to talking about sexual orientation.&amp;nbsp; Let&apos;s hope they don&apos;t wait too long.&lt;br /&gt;
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<title>Standardized testing: Pros, Cons and Alternatives</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 06 Nov 09 18:53:17 GMT</pubDate>
<description>&lt;p&gt;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.eqao.com/&quot;&gt;EQAO&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; Ever heard of it?&amp;nbsp; If you have kids in school, you have.&amp;nbsp; Every May or June, all Ontario students in Grades 3,6, and 9 take these standardized tests in literacy and numeracy.&amp;nbsp; The scores are published, by school, in newspapers and online.&amp;nbsp; Each child is given his or her results several months later.&lt;br /&gt;
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In my house, the tests have not been a big deal, because I see them more as a test of the system than of my children.&amp;nbsp; In fact, I couldn&apos;t tell you exactly how they&apos;ve done on them.&amp;nbsp; I have always preferred to talk to their teachers about their progress.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Still, they are a fact of life in Ontario, and after all these years, controversial.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;The government says standardized tests are a valuable tool that helps to improve student achievement and that the results help direct resources. &amp;nbsp; Those who agree say the system must be audited and measured, and that the public has a right to know the results of each school.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;Critics say the test causes stress and focuses far too narrowly on literacy and numeracy without regard for the many other things a child learns at school, such as the arts, history, creativity, teamwork.&amp;nbsp; They also say that teachers are forced to take time away from curriculum to &amp;quot;teach to the test&amp;quot;, and that in the end, the whole thing offers no clear benefits for students.&amp;nbsp; They also say parents use the scores to choose schools, when the scores may not be reflective of all the good work a school does.&lt;/p&gt;
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&lt;p&gt;We&apos;re going to debate the issue tomorrow, and I can&apos;t wait.&amp;nbsp; I&apos;m moderating the panel discussion &amp;quot;Testing: the pros, the cons, and the alternatives&amp;quot;&amp;nbsp; at the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.peopleforeducation.com/&quot;&gt;People for Education&lt;/a&gt; conference in Toronto.&amp;nbsp; Following that, we&apos;re taping a show on the topic, with the same guests, for &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/TVO/WebObjects/TVO.woa&quot;&gt;TVO&lt;/a&gt; and&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/index.cfm?page_id=482&quot;&gt; tvoparents.com.&lt;/a&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
The guest line-up is stellar.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Debating will be Joel Westheimer, University of Ottawa, author and winner of the CEA Whitworth Award for Educational Research;&amp;nbsp; Marguerite Jackson, CEO, Education Quality and Accountability Office; David Johnson, CD Howe, University of Wilfred Laurier; and Kathleen Devlin, Director Policy and Public Affairs, Ontario Teachers&apos; Federation.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; I&apos;ve read their pre-interview notes and I can assure you, this will be a good debate.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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We&apos;ll upload the show to&amp;nbsp; the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/index.cfm?page_id=482&quot;&gt;Your Voice&lt;/a&gt; site on Friday, and you can watch it on Sunday at 6 on &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/TVO/WebObjects/TVO.woa&quot;&gt;TVO&lt;/a&gt;. Then you can decide for yourself what YOU think about standardized tests.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Enjoy.&lt;/p&gt;
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<title>Two Cultures</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 16 Oct 09 21:40:10 GMT</pubDate>
<description>&lt;p&gt;When you wonder who is&amp;nbsp; caught between two cultures, your first thought might be immigrant children - kids who want to fit in to mainstream culture, but whose parents are still living their home culture in Canada. &amp;nbsp; In fact, that&apos;s mainly who we spoke about during our discussion on &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/index.cfm?page_id=483&amp;amp;event_id=2666&amp;amp;sitefolder=tvoparents&quot;&gt;Your Voice&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; Kids who have newly arrived in this country, or the Canadian-born children of immigrants are often caught.&amp;nbsp; They live one life at home and another out in the world, and as you can imagine,&amp;nbsp; this often leads to conflict within the family.&lt;br /&gt;
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But here&apos;s something to think about.&amp;nbsp; Our guest, Mehru Ali, said being caught between two cultures can affect children of all kinds, not just immigrants.&amp;nbsp; All kids grow up in cultures defined by their socio-economic status, for instance, or even religion.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; They, too, can feel caught between the values and expectations of their families and close communities, and those of the mainstream, into which they so desperately want to fit.&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;So watch &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/index.cfm?page_id=483&amp;amp;event_id=2666&amp;amp;sitefolder=tvoparents&quot;&gt;our show&lt;/a&gt;, but keep that in the back of your mind. We all have &amp;quot;cultures&amp;quot; that we must balance with the mainstream culture.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; &lt;/p&gt;</description>
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<title>Free-range Kids</title>
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<pubDate>Fri, 09 Oct 09 16:53:01 GMT</pubDate>
<description>&lt;p&gt;You can be forgiven for thinking &amp;quot;free-range kids&amp;quot; or the &amp;quot;slow child movement&amp;quot; has something to do with food, chickens in particular.&amp;nbsp; For some reason, this idea has adopted the language used to describe food and food culture, but the terms do make some sense, and I, for one, welcome them.&lt;br /&gt;
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The slow-child movement is a backlash against the crazy, hectic schedules that exist for many families.&amp;nbsp; If you have kids, you know what I mean.&amp;nbsp; Rush home from work to drive daughter A to dance, back home, start dinner, back to pick up daughter A,&amp;nbsp; hope son is home from school stage crew meeting and carpool driver has dropped off daughter B from choir rehearsal, so&amp;nbsp; they can start homework before the piano teacher arrives. Parents, son and daughter A eat dinner quietly while daughter B&amp;nbsp; takes piano lesson, followed by daughter A.&amp;nbsp; Hopefully the homework gets done, and there might be time to chat about the day before everyone falls in to bed exhausted, planning for the next day which begins with a 7 am swim team practice for son at school, which is a 15-minute drive from home.&amp;nbsp;&lt;/p&gt;
&lt;p&gt;You get the picture. This is actually a snapshot from my life a few years ago when my kids were younger and I was crazier.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;
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Last year, we made the big decision to slow down.&amp;nbsp; We (and I say &amp;quot;we&amp;quot; because these activities affected everyone) quit dance and piano, and left only choir, and school-related extra-curriculars. I miss the sound of the piano music in our house, but I don&apos;t miss the nagging to practise. Other than that, our decision to calm our lives has been a great success.&amp;nbsp; We now eat more leisurely dinners together, spend more time just &amp;quot;hanging out&amp;quot; together and with friends, and generally feel less stress and more freedom. This suits our family.&amp;nbsp; I&apos;m glad I gave my kids the opportunity to try new things, to pursue activities that interested them, but at some point I think we began to lose more than we gained.&lt;br /&gt;
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Watch our &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/index.cfm?page_id=483&amp;amp;event_id=2605&amp;amp;sitefolder=tvoparents&quot;&gt;show&lt;/a&gt;, and let me know what you think.  Is too much structure bad for kids?&lt;br /&gt;
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<title>How Kids Learn to Read</title>
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<pubDate>Thu, 01 Oct 09 20:12:48 GMT</pubDate>
<description>&lt;p&gt;It&amp;#39;s hard to remember exactly how I learned to read.&amp;nbsp; It happened so long ago, and I was so young. I think it started in Grade One, because I don&amp;#39;t remember being &amp;quot;taught&amp;quot; to read in Kindergarten.&amp;nbsp; My Kindergarten teacher, who I loved, read stories to us, and we had these wonderful felt boards to create our own stories but that was it.&amp;nbsp; It was in Grade One when I started to put it all together, to learn that certain letters and words had meaning when strung together. With big fat red pencils, I printed short sight words beside pictures and read Dick and Jane. By the time I was in Grade Three I was reading entire children&amp;#39;s novels in a day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Something made me love reading, but I&amp;#39;m not convinced it was school. I think it was my parents.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We always had lots of kid&amp;#39;s books in our house, and my Mom read to us. But more importantly, my parents read their own books - all the time. For my mom, it was after dinner.&amp;nbsp; While other mothers might have jumped up from the dinner table to start the dishes, my Mom would light a cigarette and crack open her book. The clean up would wait, or my brothers and I did it. My dad was an especially voracious reader - still is. He read westerns and science fiction, and would regularly go to the used book store and bring home a box of books, which he would read and return a couple of weeks later for a new box of books.&amp;nbsp; And every weekend he would take my brothers and me to the big public library downtown. He would go upstairs to the &amp;quot;adult&amp;quot; section and my brothers and I would go downstairs to the &amp;quot;kids&amp;quot; section. I&amp;#39;m pretty sure we just ran around when we were very young, but as the years went by, we settled and eventually started doing our homework there.&amp;nbsp; And we always came home with books.&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/index.cfm?page_id=483&amp;amp;event_id=2646&amp;amp;sitefolder=tvoparents&quot; title=&quot;How do kids learn to read&quot;&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;/a&gt;So watch our show &amp;quot;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/index.cfm?page_id=483&amp;amp;event_id=2646&amp;amp;sitefolder=tvoparents&quot; title=&quot;How do kids learn to read&quot;&gt;How Do Kids Learn to Read&lt;/a&gt;&amp;quot;, and then go make a cup of tea, open your novel, and read. And make sure your kids see you doing it. It may be the best thing you can do to get your kids reading.&lt;/p&gt;</description>
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<title>The Honeymoon&apos;s Over</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 14 Sep 09 17:03:46 GMT</pubDate>
<description>Last week, my youngest child started high school.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; She was excited, happy, fairly confident.&amp;nbsp; A week later, the apple has lost its shine, so to speak. She&amp;#39;s had a couple of killer anxiety dreams, and in response, has set some goals for herself - to meet new kids, to work hard in math, and to get involved at school. I&amp;#39;m thrilled with the way she&amp;#39;s responding to this stress in her life, but I wish she didn&amp;#39;t have to feel it in the first place.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Starting school or changing schools is actually on the &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.geocities.com/BEYOND_STRETCHED/holmes.htm&quot; title=&quot;Raye-Holmes Scale&quot;&gt;Holmes-Rahe Scale&lt;/a&gt; of Life Events, which measures stress in life.&amp;nbsp; &amp;#39;Beginning formal education&amp;#39; rates 27th and &amp;#39;changing to a new school&amp;#39; rates 32nd on the list of 42 life events. Of course, they are far behind the major stressful events. &amp;#39;Death of a spouse or child&amp;#39; is first on the list. &amp;#39;Gaining a new family member&amp;#39; is 14th, &amp;#39;a son or daughter leaving home&amp;#39; is 23rd. But still, school is on the list.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;We can&amp;#39;t deny the stress our children feel at this time of year. If they&amp;#39;re starting kindergarten or Grade One, they have to be away from mom or dad or their caregiver for all or part of the day, they have to learn where the bathroom is, wait for their snack, play with kids they may not like. We have some&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/index.cfm?page_id=145&amp;amp;action=article&amp;amp;article_title_url=BacktoSchoolTipsonTacklingtheFirstMonthBack&amp;amp;article_id=2831&quot; title=&quot;parents article&quot;&gt; tips&lt;/a&gt; for helping this age group get through the first month of school. &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Older kids starting high school, like my daughter, must navigate more complicated social circles, become much more independent academically, and learn to scale three flights of stairs several times a day to get to class on time, without getting lost in the maze of classrooms.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;A little empathy goes a long way right now. That and an early bedtime. Good luck to all of you.</description>
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<pubDate>Tue, 08 Sep 09 19:29:20 GMT</pubDate>
<description>&lt;p&gt;Today has been like groundhog day around here. It&amp;#39;s the first day of school, and the same conversation has been repeated over and over and over. It goes something like this:&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;So, how&amp;#39;d it go this morning?&amp;quot;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;&amp;quot;Well...Johnnie doesn&amp;#39;t like his new teacher,&amp;quot; or &amp;quot;Great, he marched right off,&amp;quot; or &amp;quot;He&amp;#39;s not with his friends, I hope that&amp;#39;s okay,&amp;quot; or &amp;quot;He&amp;#39;s in a split. Not sure what I think about that.&amp;quot;&lt;/p&gt;&lt;p&gt;My Facebook page reads the same way. The morning began with parents, including myself, marveling and worrying about kids who are now in grade one, two, starting at a new school, or entering high school. It doesn&amp;#39;t seem to matter what the situation is - the first day is always traumatic. Now that lunch hour is over and parents have heard from their kids, my Facebook is filled with relief.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt; Parents are probably more anxious than their kids about the first day of school. We know it&amp;#39;s a big day, whether the kids are starting full day school, or high school.&amp;nbsp; And we know that we will have to face them later with soothing words, excitement, plans, advice. It can be a very emotional, and difficult day.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;I&amp;#39;m not sure there&amp;#39;s any surefire way to make the first day perfect. TVOParents has a few&amp;nbsp;&lt;a href=&quot;http://www.tvo.org/cfmx/tvoorg/tvoparents/index.cfm?page_id=145&amp;amp;action=theme&amp;amp;theme_title_url=TheSchoolandYou&amp;amp;theme_id=82&amp;amp;section_id=2&quot; title=&quot;TVOParents back to school articles&quot;&gt;tips&lt;/a&gt; for you. In my house, we try to keep it positive. We talk about how great it will be, the opportunities that will arise to meet new friends, new teachers. We make sure everyone knows where to be, when. And I try never to talk about clothes or hair or any of that other stuff that can stop a teenager in her tracks.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;It seems to have worked. Both my high schoolers had a great first day and say they can&amp;#39;t wait for tomorrow. I&amp;#39;m relieved, and while I know there will be less-than-perfect days ahead, this was a good start. &lt;/p&gt;</description>
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<title>The Summer I Grew Up</title>
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<pubDate>Mon, 31 Aug 09 19:32:06 GMT</pubDate>
<description>A couple of weeks ago, I thought this was the summer my daughter would grow up.&amp;nbsp; But I have since come to realize it has been the summer I grew up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;My 16-year-old daughter has just returned from a month in &lt;a href=&quot;http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Benin&quot; title=&quot;Benin, Africa&quot;&gt;Benin, Africa&lt;/a&gt;.&amp;nbsp; She went with her school and &lt;a href=&quot;http://www.canadaworldyouth.org/en/&quot; title=&quot;Canada World Youth&quot;&gt;Canada World Youth&lt;/a&gt; and lived with a family, whom she affectionately refers to as her Mom, Dad, sisters and brothers.&amp;nbsp; (I&amp;#39;m over the slight twinge of jealousy that first brought on).&amp;nbsp; She volunteered her labour in a pineapple juice plant, a soybean paste plant, and an orphanage, and she went to church and soccer games and other events with her family.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; She also did a bit of touring on the weekends, but the bulk of her time was spent in her community.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;She wasn&amp;#39;t allowed to take her cell phone or a laptop - there was no way to use them anyway.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; We did hear from a Canada World Youth liaison once a week, so we knew what the group was doing, but my husband and I were desperate to hear her voice.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; That finally happened when she called me at the office two weeks ago.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; It was SO good to hear her voice, to know she was safe.&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp;&amp;nbsp; After we&amp;#39;d spoken, she called my husband.&amp;nbsp; Then my husband called me. &amp;nbsp; We were relieved, excited, and we both agreed that she sounded different - mature, more grown up, like an adult.&amp;nbsp; It was astounding.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;Since her return, we&amp;#39;ve been looking at her photos, listening to her stories, and have become more and more impressed by her courage and confidence.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;And I have realized, now that I can breathe deeply again, that her journey was not just hers, it was ours, mine. We needed her to go so we&amp;#39;d know she could.&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;This will go down as the summer we all grew up.&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&lt;br /&gt;&amp;nbsp; &lt;br /&gt; </description>
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